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Spankytoes

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  1. Actually I don't, which is why I am asking them. Help me understand: Biological male that identifies as a woman is a woman. Biological male that has had gender reassignment surgery to physically appear as a woman is also a woman. One has a penis, the other has a vagina but both are women. Is one more woman than the other? I think Leo DiCaprio is an attractive man. I would not be interested in having sex with him if he identified and made himself appear as a woman. Shouldn't I have the right to know what's between his legs or am I supposed to be denied my rights as a straight guy that doesn't believe your terms of social constructs? Despite popular opinion on this thread, intolerance isn't a one-way street. You certainly wouldn't advocate that religion should be the default despite the law. (At least I hope you wouldn't) I know the answers to those questions in the sense that I don't buy the premise that a man can become a woman based on a subjective feeling. I would consider the guy fucking a trans woman as either gay or bi, which is perfectly fine. At best, he's curious. I know my answer already. I'm interested in yours.
  2. Because I'm on a thread titled "All Transgendered Things" and am asking a question relating to transgendered things? I've been married for almost 20 years. None of this matters to me nor does it to you. I think it's a relevant question to have if your intent on creating this thread is what you imply it to be. (Which it's not)
  3. 100% agree. What two dudes/chicks/whatever do in the bedroom between consenting adults is not my business. What I find puzzling is why a trans woman wouldn't feel compelled to disclose that info to not violate the rights of their partner before hitting the sheets. I wouldn't purposely serve green beans with bacon to a Jew because I personally don't think eating pork is a big deal and I find it ridiculous that it is religiously verboten. That's not my right to impose my beliefs.
  4. Define "trans woman". A trans woman that is post-op and has a vagina or a trans woman that still needs to be checked for testicular cancer? Should there be a distinction? Are you straight if you fuck a trans woman with a dick in the ass because you both identify her as a woman? There are men that would be all for doing that that identify as gay and straight. But, what about those sympathetic to the plight of trans people? Is it intolerant to not want a chick with a dick to give you a blowjob? On the reverse, Tropheus has said in the past that she likes women. If she docks with a straight guy, is she straight, despite being a biological male that identifies as a woman...which makes now make her a lesbian? A flowchart would help here. Actually, scratch that.
  5. Someone get Ja Rule on the phone so I can make sense of all this!
  6. Except you're wrong, a few people on here that I know outside of the board know you're wrong, and I don't waste more than 1 reply on socks that don't have the balls, or vagina...no judgment, to speak their minds out in the open.
  7. Mental illness and chronic depression are results of a chemical imbalance. How people treat you can enhance these pre-existing factors, but they are not the root cause. If you believe they are, then tell me a solution. A trans person living today will never see complete acceptance in society the same way that a black guy will wonder if a comment was made due to his skin color. You don't learn mental illness nor do you get rid of it. It can only be treated to a reasonable degree. One of the many reasons I treat trans people with respect, save our resident narcissist, as I've proclaimed many times. Me calling you a "she" and treating you with respect is all I'm willing to go on that journey. My inability to placate a trans woman on how brave she is and pretend that she isn't a man with a penis and a dress is intellectually dishonest, which is why I don't do it. In the 5 years I have had trans friends, this discussion hasn't come up once. Why? Because my personally held view is irrelevant to their worth as a human being and certainly not something I would offer freely out of politeness. Same reason I have gay friends but no desire to ask them if they are a bottom or a top. There's more to people than their sexuality.
  8. I don't subscribe fully to the BMI theory, but it is a good barometer for overweight to obese people. I am currently at the upper limits of the "overweight" category for my height. Last summer, I was 25 pounds lighter and was closer to the lower end on the range. To get to my desired weight, I need to lose 40 - 50 pounds despite the chart still telling me that I would still be overweight. (I'm 220-ish) It doesn't take into account frame size as I have freakishly muscular legs and broad shoulders. Where I don't buy into it is regarding health. During the work week, I walk 2 miles a day on average working in Manhattan. I would have no issue walking a half marathon to completion as my body has been conditioned for it. So I don't think that it's a good measuring stick for ones lifestyle. I'm overweight because of my genetics, slow metabolism at 40 and piss poor diet. Yet, I have a clean bill of health from my physician on all my vitals as a type 2 diabetic and 20+ year dipper.
  9. Mental illness and depression within the trans community is not an unverified assumption. There are plenty of published studies speaking to the correlation of these issues. Do you have any data to combat this? It's a dumb argument targeted towards men.
  10. Of course you have me on ignore. Like many on the Left, the only position worth listening to is those that agree with you. Free discussion and open dialogue are your kryptonite because it violates your safe space. You know, like the one you created in 2015 when you felt so liberated and your ex-wife was just so supportive of your declaration and you were convinced that no one suspected that you were really a dude in drag? Or when several posters had to beg you to stop trying to oversell your womanhood with your newly found girly-but-not-gay posting style back on Shaggy? Or your sense of humor when a now famous internet meme of a “m’am” throwing a tantrum at GameStop gets posted because it violates your sense of self worth indirectly? Or the countless threads you used to start that you later had deleted because you didn’t get 100% reassurance that your expectations were based in reality? Truth be told, I do hope that you are happy. I also hope that you are receiving the help you apparently need, however you take that to mean. But you do you, because you’re above it all and life is a bed of roses, no thanks to intolerant assholes like me that refuse to pretend for your benefit on a message board.
  11. Well, half of my posts have been asking for tangible data to support a held view, or debunking the claims that I have made arguments I have in fact not made, so knock yourself out. Though, I suppose I should thank you for recognizing the fact that I stated that I don’t care. Some people have missed that sentiment entirely. Yet, you are only awarded partial credit. Because I did say that I care if I am forced to be intellectually dishonest with myself and proclaim a transgendered woman is an actual woman. My carelessness extends to calling them “she” or letting them tinkle in the ladies room. That’s not my business.
  12. That I don’t verbalize to trans people in any conceivable way outside of this “debate” on a message board. If i was directly asked that question by a trans person in my real life, I would be honest about it. If that hurts their feelings, I won’t lose a wink of sleep over it. To quote Ben Shapiro, facts don’t have feelings. There are plenty of other people willing to be PC if reassurance is what you seek. I’m not one of them. I prefer to stab you in the chest rather than the back.
  13. “You’re still making an assertion that I am claiming that my opinion matters despite conclusive evidence to the contrary. Seriously, 1st page. Post #9. You can’t miss it.“ -Spankytoes; Page 4; Post #198 The problem is that I can quote it for you, but I can’t understand it for you.
  14. You’re suggesting that DD doesn’t care that I don’t personally believe a trans woman is actually a woman and hasn’t spent hours trying to debunk my view? Cool.
  15. The old moving the goalpost trick. Don’t be a bigoted dick, but be polite and treat them with respect. Yeah, I’m going to need help on this one. Should I tell them that they are delusional because that’s how I really feel or should I pretend he’s a she and play along to not further traumatize someone with issues? Seems I can’t win unless I conform.
  16. Excellent. I can’t find them. As stated before, I am taken to links where the article is also published like an index. So if you’d be so kind, I’d like to read them to understand your view better.
  17. I’m sure my self-held view, that I don’t share with them outwardly during all the politeness to the pronoun and respect I actually show them, has set the movement back dearly. My refusal to adhere to their view of a woman, while never verbalized, must be crippling. Now who’s making an argument against something the other person never claimed?
  18. You mean like, I don’t know...abortion?
  19. No, I’ll like it fine. Whether or not I disagree with it is irrelevant. At least you will have provided evidence to support your claim based in science, or at least pseudoscience. By all means, give me the link to the study and I will read every word of it. Don’t cop out.
  20. As fascinating as the posters responding at the same clip?
  21. Better idea: Why don’t you just provide a direct link since it’s your argument. It would be much more beneficial than a summary of a supposed study where the results are inconclusive but may make a case for what you are proclaiming. The Cliff’s Notes aren’t exactly mind blowing.
  22. Conclusions: Although the mechanisms remain to be determined, there is strong support in the literature for a biologic basis of gender identity. So, it’s a hypothesis?
  23. I’m only asking for 1 study, which you have failed to provide. I have provided 1 to support my position and am happy to provide others based on the specific question. You have conveniently ignored it to constantly tell me that I am part of the problem and decline debating the issue on a topic you yourself created a thread on. We can’t come to an understanding if we don’t clearly state our position and provide evidence to support it. I’m starting to suspect that this was not your intent at all. Shocking.
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