If you aren't a Christian, I think you can make up whatever you want in regards to those questions.
But I actually think that, again back to the biblical illiteracy among Christians, the bible doesn't give a great (or clear cut) answer to idea of heaven (and hell, for that matter) for those who profess to believe in the triune God of the bible in the vein of what Bozo is trying to communicate, but it does talk about it for your study, meditation, prayer and contemplation.
I think the idea that you go to a concept of heaven up in the atmosphere away from earth and see all your friends and family and reunite is pretty widely accepted to be false. I think you might not even know your wife or husband or child or best friend, in the temporal sense we know them now, but it's a return to the shalom (the completeness, unbrokenness) that was how God intended...and we commune and abide with God and so we don't care.
But even before getting to that point, I believe the bible tells us that are to wait until our messiah returns before the offer of heaven (saved or not) is open to us. I've heard it variously called Sheol, but purgatory is a common term for the idea as well.
I'm not 1000% on these matters, but I do think there are Christian answers to these questions for Christian believers, for those who have done the eschatology and other proper study and readings (and not just zoned out in sunday school or sunday sermons).