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GhostOfTomJoad

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  1. Dialogue is the key. My challenge is dealing with a sense of failure when I can't immediately take away her discomfort or make her feel better. The best i can do is potentially alleviate some of the side effects, but there isnt a toggle switch solution. This could take years so it's part of the ride & we're gonna make the best of it together.

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  2. Thought about "Astral Weeks" but in the end I don't see it fitting as a Concept Album. It doesn't really fit into any category, although Springsteen probably best described it as "trance music: poetry laid down over basic, repetitive chords that show you the possibility of the divine." It's just a perfect album that seemed to happen without great intent, which in the end is kinda the opposite of a CA.

  3. Lol, we just bought one last Fri and although the price negotiations went fine & the whole experience was low key, she did things along when it came time to sign the paperwork. We made it clear multiple times we were paying cash & not buying any extended service contracts, maintenance plans, etc. When the finance manager tried to start his pitch she gave him a dead-eyed stare & said "I'm hungry & we're heading for lunch. Say whatever you want, but when my husband's through writing the check we're taking the keys & leaving. " It was a true FAFO tone & it worked beautifully .

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  4. Yeah, she's extremely conscious of her intake, religiously uses her high quality vitamins, doc has her on different meds to keep her balanced, etc. She's also on meds for a low thyroid so keeping everything finely tuned is the challenge. Will definitely look into the Ooler thing though.

  5. Alright, guys (and gals; you're the experts after all). What are your best survival tips? Mrs GOTJ was diagnosed as pre-menopausal about a year ago & now that train is roaring down the tracks. Rapid & dramatic body temperature changes, especially at night usually have her sleeping in the guest room. That's pretty easy to manage. But now it's the sudden mood swings that are spinning my head a la Linda Blair. Sure, over the past 20+ years I've become adept at dodging the verbal landmines & trick questions designed to test if I've been paying attention or not. But now she's got like superhero rapid fire interrogation abilities combined with other worldly hearing (no muttering under my breath) AND the ability to instantly burst into tears. Her doc has her on some good meds which helps somewhat, but I really don't want to end up in a shallow earthen grave in the near future because I didn't see the trap that was laid for me.

     

    Help me, surly-wan. You're my only hope.

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  6. There are too many innocent victims involved here-including the soon-to-be ex-wife & teenage kids-to get too specific. The perv is still cooling his heels in the local jail while they determine if an actual crime was committed. But there is apparently video evidence & the location of the tryst will turn quite a few heads in disgust.

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  7. Lol not w his money.  W political favors and tax breaks etc?  You bet your ass he will.  
    Trump will let Elon bomb the fuck out of a small brown country for shits & giggles for a few billion.
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