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When does a KU fan show up and lecture us about rooting for Creighton?
Lulz. Maybe when you have 40+ posts in a row that say nothing except “fuck gods gift” and name the season thread “fuck the hawks.”- 1
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Ad hominem all day long.
Shaggy is clever until it comes to Baylor. Then it’s exclusively rep-whore nonsense.
You do you, guys. Hook ‘em.- 8
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We have a couple baylor fans here that are self aware and good people. You’re a piece rape apologist. Y’all shouldn’t even be allowed to have a school, let alone an athletic program. Now go find a murder or rape to cover up or go skin a cat, fuckwad
What are you actually talking about?
I’ve been regularly interacting in good faith the entire season with absolutely no problems. Baylor loss brought out surly bitchassedness big time.- 10
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No, you think you're being negged because you root for a team that won some basketball games. What you should ask yourself is why there are so many Kansas fans who were never negged around here.
Because you feel Kansas deserves to win and Baylor does not. You’re entitled fans that can’t stand losing to scrubby little Baylor. As I said, rent free.- 15
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Lol we definitely differ on the obvious reasons.
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I love this board! Y’all are funnier than the Baylor boards. Fans from every single big 12 team and more post here without incident, but Baylor is uniquely detested for obvious reasons.
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Soon, Baylor won't be living rent free in anyone's head. They'll just be an afterthought across college athletics.
this is almost certainly true. It’s been a fun ride.- 2
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Bears have been living rent free in surlys head for years now.
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Well that was fun. We don’t have the depth to go past sweet 16 anyway.
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Right, because Baylor basketball has historically been squeaky clean, and their current players are so likable.
Fuck Baylor.
Lol y’all have been fawning on our guys all year. Especially sochan.- 2
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Come on defense. No dumb fouls.
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Has UNC never seen a trap/press?
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Stupid stupid foul.
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I think I might have a heart attack. Now or never, bears. Need Adam and James to go off stat.
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Let’s go peacocks!!!
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Ready to watch Marquette eat shit. But fuck unc.
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Super excited these baylor bench guys got meaningful minutes. Wish we’d had more of that in the regular season.
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Did Baylor fans understand that Ft. Worth was an hour and a half away?
Abysmal turnout.
We’ll show up on Saturday /nojinx/. Im in aspen and trying to talk the family into leaving a day early to go. -
Baylor looking good against Norfolk state. Glad to see dale bonner getting some minutes—we’re gonna need some good bench play if we want to get anywhere.
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i personally can attest to the efficacy of EMDR therapy. my bff has also gone thru it and in her words it 'changed her life'.
The research on EMDR is super exciting and promising. I’m only familiar with it in the context of trauma but I find the neuroscience behind it fascinating!- 2
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the way i put it - you can't control your emotions, you are going to feel whatever you feel...but you can control your reactions to them.
I tell my high school students what my grandmom told me, “We must master our emotions or be mastered by them, and emotions are a selfish, fickle master.” -
I've said it several times on other threads, but I have come to believe that most mental health issues boil down to "processing errors." One misperceives the events of the world around them and in many cases react accordingly, and inappropriately. Which is not to say that it's all thinking errors, because it's chemically assisted (either brain or ingested chemicals or both) as often as not. But recovery seems to require adjusted thinking and processing of events and emotions.
Exactly. We feed into this distorted thinking by over-sympathizing with “the worst day ever.” One of the best things we can do as parents is to help our kids put their suffering into perspective. We acknowledge the feelings, then guide them to correct for skewed thinking.
“Mrs. Howard hates me!”
“Man! You sound really upset. What happened?”
“She hates me!”
“Tell me more about what happened.”
This is where your child may get reluctant to share details because s/he knows deep down the evidence does not support the claim.
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I’m sure the first thing the doctor will do is take her off social media. I’d go a step further and take away a smartphone completely. She will feel like you’re punishing her, but just let her know it’s not true. This is what a good parent would do, and you really want to be a good parent. The research on adolescent girls and social media is overwhelming.
I’d also recommend taking a family trip with no phones and reengaging. There’s an excellent book called, Hold on to your Kids by Gabor and mate that explains why kids’ primary attachment must be their parents who love them unconditionally.
The last thing may seem counterintuitive right now but I would require more of her. Children and adolescents need work, hard work, to feel capable, valuable and like they belong. If it’s work outdoors even better. Keith McCurdy is a LPC that talks about raising sturdy kids and he’s been guests on several podcasts you can google, talking about anxiety and depression in teens being directly related to a lack of adversity. He also addresses negative confirmation bias and how we need to equip our teens to use their emotions as a gauge and not as a guide for how to live their lives. Emotions are real, but not reliable for decision-making.
I prayed for your family just now!- 2
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2022 NCAA Tournament - 2nd Round
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Hilarious, I had no idea.