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  1. Can you (or anyone else familiar) elaborate on this some more? I grew up nearby and was about 12 years old when it closed down, which was one of my first conscious WTF moments in life. I remember my Dad telling me about the evil veggie lady, but my childhood brain could not make sense of why someone would purposefully wreck something that everyone else enjoyed so much. We used to have breakfast there most weekends, I remember there was an cool old lady who was one of the servers (I think Sally maybe was her name?). Also a very underrated CFS in addition to the burgers and other staple items.
  2. That's really tough man, and I'm not sure the math/feasibility is on your side even with a max 401k loan. I thought for a minute that a home sale + downgrade may be best in the long-run, but gonna be damn difficult (if not impossible) to replicate a viable long-term living situation at fixed cost of ~$1500/mo without a brutal quality of life disruption, even in Oklahoma. I hate to say it, but all signs point to default unless your wife is willing to ante up immensely on the income side of the equation. That said, a wife-centered ultimatum (and forced employment arrangement) could lead to even more acute issues that may completely destroy you financially if an acrimonious divorce materializes as a result. Although it is generally bullshit (and very selfish) that she's not willing to work more to dig out of this disaster, she's also the wife you chose (and ultimately have kept)...so please tread lightly (and understand the risks) if you suddenly decide to lay down the law with her. The "good" news is in a default scenario you will not be lying to any of your creditors, the fact of the matter is a family crisis put you far beyond the point of traditional repayment, and they will now face some of the consequences for lending to you beyond your means (assuming you did not misrepresent your household income). You're not trying to have cake and eat it too...you already drive old/cheaper cars and it's not as if you are trying to keep a vacation home or boating hobby in motion while this inferno burns. It's been mentioned a couple of times now, but unsecured debt is really not that catastrophic (at least based on how I understand the rules/laws). It will certainly suck in several ways, but even if you were in a forced bankruptcy situation (which you're absolutely not) your main assets (house + 401k) are gonna be protected anyway. Best wishes out there and don't allow this to wreck your personal esteem. Everyone makes mistakes, and at the root, all you seemingly were trying to do was be a loving parent; even if it went beyond your own rational good sense.
  3. Also: I alluded to HELOCs but to do not endorse/recommend whatsoever. The 401k loan is the ONLY form of "new debt" that I would remotely support, and that's probably only if you decide to go down the road of using that $$$ in concert with some strategic defaults + chargeoffs (since you can always pull that 401k lever regardless of your credit score situation.)
  4. First off, you seem like a good person and I'm sorry for everything that happened. There is some useful directional advice above, but I think you may be missing an element of number-crunching before determining your final COAs. Now that things are back to "normal" (based on the at short-term closure of your son's situations), what is your actual current monthly cash-flow surplus after accounting for all overhead bills, gas/insurance, food, discretionary purchases, and of course, existing debt service costs? You mentioned familiarity with Dave Ramsey, which would indicate you're pretty well-versed in the mechanics of actual/no-shit/budgeting and hopefully keep pretty close track of inflows/outflows on a monthly basis. If not, the FIRST THING I would do is start fresh on February 1 and track, log, audit every single penny that you and your wife spend (no matter how small) and organize those expenses into spreadsheet format in relation to your take-home-pay (based on current taxes + 401k contributions). Assuming you both have pretty steady income, you can then amortize (based on February's results) exactly how much "progress" is feasibly possible on an annual basis based on status quo expenditures. Based on your apparent frugality, there may not be much low-hanging fruit for cutting back spending, but if you're already running something like a $3K surplus per month then it's really not that much of a crisis and you can confidently roll into restructuring/reservicing based on variety of calculations cost/benefit comparisons. Conversely, if you're only able to "save" like a grand per month (or less) then I think you need to take a more holistic look at your financial situation (and yes, housing situation) if your wife is truly incapable/unwilling to contribute additional income. I don't know how old your other kids are, but I kind of struggle with your wife's expectation of having a fully paid-off "family size" house if the long-term use case is only for her to live there on her own-ish once you are dead. But we can drill down on that further once we obtain some more data regarding your go-forward cash flow situation. If you are truly cash-deficient, then I would also consider/explore some strategic defaults on several of those credit cards (depending on how the balances are spread out currently) before knocking out huge balances with a 401k loan. I'm not an expert in this area, but I would presume you could do a 2-3 month default and then negotiate a chargeoff payment (or way lower interest rate?) to clear the balance and move-on. This will obviously impact your short-term credit rating, but may be well worth the cumulative benefit especially if you don't foresee a need for new financing any time soon (note: obviously you would do this after your HELOC/REFI or whatever is decided for/against). Nuclear option would also be to roll the dice on a balls-deep, across the board default, and then just change your cell phone numbers and let the chips fall where they may with the collections + civil judgments. While I consider this to be a generally unethical action, but a case could be made that it's not as scummy since you used the money for terrible legal nightmare (as opposed to opulent bullshit), but that's between you and God. Also fair to mention that nobody forced these card companies to issue unsecured debt in the first place, and perhaps our whole country would be in way better shape with respect to inflation + financial well-being if they did not extend such enormous credit lines at usurious rates that don't really lead anywhere else than moral hazard in most cases.
  5. And yes, Money Guy is an excellent starting point for someone in Zepol's situation....especially if he is interested in a values-based, debt-avoidance approach to finances and doesn't want to have his intelligence continuously insulted by Ramsey (although the Baby Steps are a good foundational concept). Look up the Money Guy "Financial Order of Operations" and use it as a general barometer for assessing your current status. If any of those topics are unfamiliar to you, there's many quick/easy MoneyGuy podcast and Youtubes that can help educate + determine your action plan.
  6. I've found Jim Dahle of the "White Coat Investor" to essentially be the most informative (and knowledgeable) financial person on the internet; and vast majority of that content/archives + podcast material is available 100% free of charge. That said, one of his former sponsors (a REIT) was recently exposed as an insolvent quasi-scam that is in final stages of wiping out all equity investors (including Dahle himself), so even the good guys aren't immune to the bullshit.
  7. Pato, Although the lending information above is sound, I think it's a big mistake to take on additional leverage (in the form of HELOCs or whatever) just to become an out of state landlord. As someone who is cash poor with recent employment disruptions and significant family/childcare obligations, you already possess a lot of risk factors that could be drastically worsened by an income disruption and/or rental situation gone awry. Furthermore, you have to be extremely rational (if not outright pessimistic) when penciling out your cost/benefit analysis on the sell vs. rent calculus. The recent emergence of 5% risk-free savings rates has completely transformed the upside potential (and downside risk) of landlording; especially in places like CenTex that already got their moonshot appreciation from COVID and are now tapering off (and some cases trending back down quickly). I don't know the SFH rental market in Georgetown, but my glance at Zillow shows tons of newish-built stuff all around $2k-2.2k per month. Let's say you have a nicer place that is in the $2,500 range, these are the key questions that must have very compelling, ironclad answers for you to override your risks: 1.) How much are your TX property taxes going to increase in Year 1 (and continue to climb) once you lose your homestead exemption? (Hint: It's likely gonna be massive) 2.) Good property manager is gonna take 50-60% of 1st month's rent, plus 8-10% each month going forward; how does that impact your margins? 3.) Let's say it takes anywhere from 4-8 weeks to find/book payment from your first tenant, how does that extra/needless mortgage payment(s) affect your upside? 4.) Shit happens, and people also tend to break shit when it's not their responsibility. Let's say typical maintenance/upkeep runs another $500 per year, but potentially multiple thousands if you have a big-ticket issue....how quickly/comfortably can you write that check without dipping into interest-bearing funding sources? And how will that impact your cash-flow margins? 5.) Nightmare scenario of non-paying tenant: Are you in position to float all mortgage/expenses indefinitely while eviction gets sorted out? Do you think the property manager making a $200/month off you will really care that much about timely/swift justice in addition to all the other shit they're dealing with at a given time? Now based on that framework, you need to calculate the other side of the equation which has immense benefits on a variety of fronts: 1.) Your $100k equity position is already tax free based on your 2+ years of occupancy as a primary residence. This benefit cannot be overstated. 2.) Said $100k instantly becomes a $400/mo of risk-free cash the moment you park it in a high-yield savings account, or can do even better with CDs or get other tax advantages via T-Bills. 3.) Said $100k can be utilized as down payment onto new home in WA to offset impact of higher interest rates, lessening the urgency for refinancing. 4.) Said $100k can be used to clear other debt (cars, credit cards, student loans etc), strengthen kids' 529 plans, and maintain a 6-month emergency cash reserve so you don't have to panic if you have another employment problem. 5.) Said $100k enables you to focus your time/effort/headspace on making the most of your new life in WA rather than potentially dreading every time your phone rings because it's got something to do with the damn house in Georgetown that you likely don't care to ever see again. BOTTOM LINE: Investment properties are great/useful/strategic if you are an investor (and are bankrolled accordingly). They can be catastrophically bad for finances, marriages, quality of life if you're a regular dude riding it all on leverage in the midst of the most uncertain housing/lending climate any of us have seen in at least two decades. In the super long-run renting out (and chasing long-term appreciation) may be advantageous, but I just don't think you have the money to make that gamble. As such, keep renting in WA until you close on the sale in TX and know exactly what your proceeds are. Then buy a house that you can afford even if interest rates never go down again (note: make sure you hire Wulaw as your lender). If you can't find anything that fits the criteria, keep renting/saving until you do. As an aside, I owned 3 properties (managed them all myself) when I was living in TX. Took my own advice when we moved away and am more glad I did every single day. Debt-free peace of mind is invaluable. Best wishes to you and your family.
  8. Tickets are no longer available. Feel free to delete thread.
  9. 2x Tickets for UT vs. Alabama (Sat 9/13) Section 129, Row 21 $300 per ticket ($600 total) Pls PM if interested [emoji869]
  10. Will you get the same gambling thrill if you awaken one day to an email saying all your funds are now frozen due to the bankruptcy proceedings of your coin servicer, along with instructions for pursuing a partial recovery claim?
  11. You’re actually correct (statistically) with respect to black people. Black homeownership reached its highest point in history (49%) in the very early 2000s; it presently stands at just over 40% today. https://www.marketwatch.com/amp/story/most-black-americans-arent-homeowners-how-can-we-change-that-11615431459 Black populations have also plunged (and community staples gentrified away) in nearly every major “progressive” US city within that same 20 year time frame. https://www.usnews.com/news/us/articles/2022-03-14/us-black-population-the-biggest-growth-is-in-smaller-cities?context=amp ( (key excerpt: Columbus is the only city included in the newest areas to which Black people are moving that is not in the South) We also know they have enormously higher rates of student loans and unsecured debt relative to 20 years ago…and their unemployment rate has not materially improved during that time frame.
  12. I was gonna say it reads like a bot fueled by a algorithm combo of Peter Schiff + Robert Kiyosaki twitter posts…and not at all in a good way. And I think SushiHorn is the alarmist you are remembering. His posts got me turned onto the market-ticker website (smart guy, but total autistic nutcase) when I was really young/dumb and had me partially brainwashed for a while. That said, gold continues to demonstrate its (primary) strength as a store of value in midst of this recent debacle. I think it’s up about 2% YTD, which is a helluva performance relative to most equities, risk assets, and the alleged “digital gold” of crypto. I own a decent amount of $GLD and I got very defensive in my retirement accounts in January, mainly because I hate losing money way more than I enjoy making it. So I’m basically flat across the board for 2022. Yay for me. As far as bullion being some magic elixir to a global economic meltdown, that’s just beyond stupid. Mob rule, mass starvation, etc is not gonna give a fuck about your “legal right” to coins/bars you may have purchased fair and square before the currency collapse. Also, as mentioned previous on this thread, coins will become widely counterfeited beyond the means that most any normal person could ascertain. My doomsday prepping begins and ends with my home defense firearms, ~6 week supply of nonperishable foods, first aid kits, a few cases of bottled water, and two “pretty nice” furnished rental properties (and two spare cars) with which to barter. I’m not naive enough to think for two seconds that any of us living on the grid have a legitimate chance of surviving a full scale catastrophe that extends/exceeds beyond those baseline shocks…or honestly if I’d even want to.
  13. You need to also amortize the $8k down over the 36 month lease payment (i.e. $222/mo), in addition to your standard monthlies. If you decide to give back the vehicle at end of the term you will not get any of that money refunded to you. Leasing used to be awesome when you could do so with minimal up front costs, and just swap out for new cars every 3 years. Whereas the scenario you described above just sounds like some sort of accounting reach-around to make you feel like you’re saving money. It’s still primarily a sellers market right now, no one is doing anyone any favors. Also, I’m not a lesbian, but I do know that Subarus tend to hold value better than just about any other vehicle at their equivalent price point..which therefore defeats a big portion of your perceived “lease benefit” because the depreciation is so much lower than most others. Another thing to consider is it’s generally a bigger insurance pain in the ass dealing with a totaled lease compared to one you own…espec with so much money tied up in upfront costs. If you want to spoil your daughter and have that much money to throw around, I’d recommend just buying it outright. If you’re rich enough to put $8k down on a brand new lease for a teenager you shouldn’t really care much about sales tax differentials.
  14. Craziest thing to me is there’s still almost 30% of downside left in the NASDAQ before we reach the Covid bottom. In other words, I think there’s much more cratering ahead
  15. Yeah fuck Urquidy for making one bad pitch and still turning in a quality start on the road. He’s the problem tonight, not the dickheads who mustered two hits and leave men on third with nobody out in key situation. Good grief.
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