While the rivalry is one-sided for sure, and I will *NEVER* "feel good" about any Bedlam game EVER, I do disagree with this somewhat.
The problem is that OU *has* been the better team, like for probably 98% of the program's history, even including the Gundy era. In fact, I would argue there have only been three years in 15 seasons under Gundy that OSU had the clear cut "better" team in the game:
2011
2013
2022
OSU went 2-1 in those games, with the only loss being the debacle in the snow in 2013. That one was pretty brutal because we win the Big 12 for the second time in three years if we win that game and handed Rape U their first Big 12 title a week after we curbstomped them.
There have been a few other years that I would consider more "coin toss" game... 2010, but (of course) Justin Blackmon was injured in that game and then 2012, in which we lost in OT in Norman. So it sucks to lose those, but then Gundy also got one back with the win in Norman in 2014 as a massive underdog.
So TL;DR: OSU has a shitty record against OUsux because they are prohibitively better like 98% of the time. Gundy has won 2 of the 3 times when he had the clearly better team.