Quick story on that- and maybe this will spin off into a broader conversation about how to act in an establishment that you own.
We went to Pulpit Rock first and had one or two before Pete's wife joined us. She greeted us and then went to the bar to order a drink for herself but immediately came back, stating the bartenders were busy and she would wait. Once it died down, she went back up, ordered her beer, and paid for it in cash (plus tip). Pete joined us a little later and did the same thing. An unknowing patron wouldn't have guessed in a million years that they were the owners.
Fast forward a couple hours and we said goodbye to go check out Toppling Goliath. It's a huge place, but was busy so we sat at the bar. There were about 3 bartenders behind the bar but we kept noticing that a random guy kept coming down from upstairs, going behind the bar, pouring beers, and walking out to rejoin his group (Eventually. Sometimes he just stood there drinking a while). Not once did he pay, or enter anything in the POS system. The bartenders put up with him but he was clearly in the way and causing a distraction on a busy night. At one point, my wife looked over to me and said "man that guy's walking around here like he owns the place". A quick google search confirmed that he did.
I didn't know anything at the time about Clark Lewey (I've heard plenty since), but the difference between his behavior and what we had just witnessed from the Espinosas was shocking.