I'd started typing a Brisket-length post, but it ended up just being that same post in a few thousand more words. I think the real problem, and the reason this conflict will either (a) never end, or (b) "end" in an Israeli genocide of the Palestinians, is that the Israeli state (at least as run by its right-wing governments) is a settler-colonial state and the answer to resolving violence between colonizers and colonized is usually for the colonizers to go home. But the Israeli people have nowhere else to go either. Hell, we (the "we" in this case being pretty much the rest of the world) gave them Israel because some Zionists wanted it and nobody else wanted to take a bunch of Jews in.
I used to believe a pluralistic Israel was possible. Maybe at one point it really was. But that doesn't seem possible anymore. And while plenty of blame for that can be laid at the hands of Hamas and Hezbollah, I think it primarily lies with the far-right in Israel. Just as nothing could possibly justify what Hamas has done, nothing could possibly justify the Israeli government's brutal oppression of the Palestinian people. I don't really know how to describe just how depressing it is that what was once such a beacon of hope to Jews around the world is devolving into something that will probably soon be largely indistinguishable from the nazi regime that led to Israel's creation in the first place. And I don't know if the fact that so much of our support for Israel over its history has been due to the lunatic end-times beliefs of American evangelicals (in which all Jewish people die and go to hell) could really make it worse, but it feels like it does.