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troph

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  1. I’ll add, I may be lazy and not be interested in doing more so I’ll stick with one woman, plus honestly at nearly 50 I’m slowing down and strange just isn’t what I want, I want stable, boring, abiding, reliable love with sex reliably occurring and some travel to spice it up.
  2. Karmas a bitch or a fun time new wife. We all get to decide. I don’t have an issue with ENM, I think my story highlights some of the bs that people fail to realize when they start. First you can’t cheat and then ask, even if your cheating is basically justified. And if you’re going to do this, it has to be better for everyone. ENM requires a higher level of communication and consideration, and you should do more for your primary as gratitude for working through a more complex sexual relationship. Anyway that was my theory, I could do it with my ex but she was not going to come close to returning the favor and was going to use and abuse my generosity so fuck that, I didn’t want to risk losing what I had found so boring traditional monogamy is where I landed with a better fit.
  3. I have limited experience here. My ex wanted an open relationship when I transitioned before we divorced. She had a crush on a guy and she was on the slow burn train to love, she was infatuated and I caught her pursuing him. So she says she wants an open relationship, sex and romance with a guy and sex, romance, family and life partnership with me. Okay I guess. honestly I wasn’t a fan but I tried. I was frankly embarrassed by what a tool her love interest was, just a dweeb. He had terrible feet and wasn’t that good looking. He was shy, a hermit, super smart but whatever no social skills at all. So it was my turn. I found a hot lesbian, skinnier, better income, cool, easy going and DTF. We fucked. My ex asked “you’ve already found someone?” And I was like, “yeah.” She was kinda pissed that the trans woman had game. Sorry not sorry. anyway, she finally got this schmuck’s attention and they went to Houston to get his passport renewed and hoteled up. I was like fuck that, my new love interest and I went to Tulum the same weekend. She had sex in a dumpy Houston hotel. I fucked on the beach, went off shore fishing with her and walked the streets of Cozumel in the rain holding hands looking for a killer hole in the wall dinner spot. I got home, she got home, we kept doing this for a few more weeks including designated nights we didn’t have to come home. When I had my night away I bought her flowers so she had them to look at while I was fucking my girlfriend, I gave her a hug she cried it out I listened and said it would be ok. When it was her night she just left. We were fighting a lot, she was secretive I was not. She felt entitled, I felt like I needed to make it better for everyone. In the end I really didn’t think she had what it takes to make non monogamy work. I did not think she would put in the effort. We went to counseling and she proved my suspicions, I owed her this and she was entitled to do whatever she wanted my feelings be damned. To a degree ok I changed shit. But no respect, no consideration, just deal with it. All I wanted was assurances she would engage in the basic known requirements for a successful open relationship - she was like fuck that, you do you and I’ll do me. i had a hot girlfriend now and I thought to hell with this and asked for a divorce. im now happily married to her and my ex is on boy friend number 2 I guess fuck if I know, don’t care.
  4. I draw the line at Barry switzer in an analyst role, that happens I’m out. Of course sark learned the quick way stoops bros are no fucking way. It’s been that way since the fucking freedom bowl. We don’t eat bags of dicks, they do, some of us may suck them but that’s different. There is a world of difference between a cocksucker and a cockgobbler. Trust sark, now that he knows stoops is a cockgobbler.
  5. he looks like a roided aggy, but @DougO said he's starting to look like a punk, what's that all about?
  6. That’s triple coupons. Analog. Sunday paper. Scissors, don’t get excited not lesbian scissors, old fat grandma scissors but don’t use her fabric scissors she’ll rip your face off. Now get to cutting.
  7. That age it was more like a cold November rain.
  8. Best practice for employers is to have the non compete up front and when it comes to severance on the back end follow a standard policy so you avoid disparate outcomes that could lead to discrimination claims. 1-2 months is fairly standard anything over that is pretty “generous” though some employers do a number of weeks increasing based on tenure.
  9. No shit. I stood in the fucking rain waiting for the bus. The cold fucking rain.
  10. cold, windy, raining, no prob. I just can't see a swollen muddy river being very productive but maybe I'm wrong. now right after that? yes please.
  11. Yeah totally surprised you went. Glad he gave you a freebie.
  12. I will not confirm or deny sark has offered me the position of chief liaison to surly for $2.5m per year, with a $treefiddy buyout clause.
  13. Checks notes… Hair cut - check lost weight - check improved his relationship with Jesus - check deep ball - tbd red zone offense - tbd ah, you forgot spelling, he needs to improve his spelling. but that just about covers it.
  14. Thinking about you nephew, he’s going to show y'all what a champ looks like. He’s got this.
  15. Although we are obviously in the LT basin and are approaching 3 inches. The southeastern border of the LT basin and Lake Austin/Lady Bird Lake is getting pounded.
  16. Never fear there is always bad news with the good news around here… lakes are like this… and downstream gets this…
  17. I had an open spot Friday almost offered here but I was scared of being a CJK5H type victim. but us hard core fly rod types should meet up sometime.
  18. That’s fucked up. We know the pup that attacked our Jax and nearly killed him. My wife was bit too. We didn’t turn that dog in. Fuck that. The humans messed up. The dogs didn’t. That guy needs to sit down and shut up.
  19. So I can’t tell prople there - even just SECSECSEC people - to lick rancid asshole? that place is scary I mean great for content like imma says but I don’t know how to act. Hi, thank you, awesome, thanks, appreciate you, great pick up, he seems great. Is that how I do it?
  20. dude, we should pay you your $9.95 for that, it's literally what they say for money.
  21. @horn4life yes we like our tankless. We added a circulating pump we can turn on remotely 5 mins before we take a shower or bath and it makes it even better. We also have two tankless to eliminate long hot water run. Allows everyone to use hot water when they want and no issues with depleting a water tank.
  22. I like this solution better but we already have 24kWh of battery back up. https://www.harborfreight.com/9500-watt-super-quiet-inverter-generator-with-co-secure-technology-57080.html you can also run them parallel to double your power output. You can definitely run a house including an HVAC unit off these. we are going to move HVAC and heating appliances to a box that is grid or generator powered (1-2 Predator 9500), and use grid or solar for the lights, plugs, data closet, water pump, electric controls to the water heater, circulating pump, and refrigeration. we had our first outage for 4-5 hours this past cold snap (routine with PEC) and we didn’t like the load on solar reserves with an overcast sky.
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