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troph

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  1. well I was laughing until moose man said quills could result in death. geez. way to kill a sunday afternoon chuckle and thanks for the intel that's actually good to know. I hope the pups recover. be vigilant.
  2. you had what most never get. and get another puppy if you need to. hang in there. we are here.
  3. I had that kind of love long ago, I once had a soulmate, it wasn’t meant to last a lifetime. Reconciling that perfection with the loss of it has been one of the greatest challenges of my life. I’m not sure it’s always ok with me but it just is. Well at the risk of telling a story that isn’t a fairy tale I’ll say this, I’ll walk with an emotional void and a limp the rest of my life. I really have no choice. But I’m ok, and you’ll be okay. And sometimes okay can really be spectacular. Definitely not now, but it can be in the future. But I know you are far from okay now. I guess I just want to witness feeling dead inside or even worse while breathing in and out is a thing. And it’s okay. In the divorce thread I’ll occasionally talk about how to rise above and all the habits needed to make it through. Shit if that is the thing here - I seriously doubt it. I think just breathing is the only thing to focus on. And not sure if wanting to be dead is a thing here for you, occasionally it is for me. I’ve learned for me it’s not really a desire but a thought escape. But just in case it is a thing for you in this time, the moment you think about how to do it like idle fantasizing about how to, when and where - that’s the time call someone. That’s the boundary line. Hurting so much you want to be gone is ok, thinking about doing it not so much. So you get there please call someone. If you want it to be me send me a DM and I’ll give you my number. if that thought life isn’t a risk for you then you have the first thing you can be grateful for. hang in there brother. We see you. And we will read every post and at the risk of being an obnoxious poster I’ll reply to every god damn one of them.
  4. Share as much as you want. Just wake up and breathe please. The rest seems pretty optional right now. I’m so sorry for your loss I wish I could do something.
  5. I think that only works in coal mines.
  6. troph

    LBGTQ

    It’s finally not a big deal, so kids are futzing around and trying it on. Most of them will be straight and boring don’t worry. Kinda like women making out with their roommates in college it’s just a thing. But it gives those that really are LGBTQ the room to come out so it’s a really good thing.
  7. troph

    LBGTQ

    It’s just a redefining of who the cool kids are which is also amazing in and of itself. you can almost hear them exclaim, “I’m queer too!!!”
  8. troph

    LBGTQ

    Our plan is working …
  9. February 65 degrees? Wine on a Saturday night and this… still working on fucking warranty claims. But worth it.
  10. Wait so we need to create an equal playing field with NIL? Now that Texas is legally paying players it needs to be equal? Fuck that shit you fucking cheaters and now whiny titty babies.
  11. I saw a post on insta, might have been TPWD, can't find it or anything else, sounded like there was at least an ongoing conversation about it.
  12. Good lord this bread is still a dumpster fire. If we aren’t talking transfer news or no news can we at least move back a few years and talk about OP fashion from the 80’s? Way better than No Fear.
  13. I wish this was the dark and cold bottom. But it’s not even salt water in your snorkel. Which isn’t to say this is ok, it’s to say our bottom is a lot worse and more harmful than this.
  14. Y’all are supposed to give me good news when I show up to the party.
  15. 8th grade? odds are her future interests are still volatile. My son is a sophomore and said fuck all to UT and then did an about face six months later. In my opinion having Texas schools covered is a bet you probably should stick with though I don’t know all the maths. Then if she insists on NE private school you can kill yourself* and pay for her school with the life insurance money. *I’m joking, I don’t want you to kill yourself, even if you feel like it with a NE private school tuition bill don’t do it.
  16. Fuck man. Fuck. I wish we were IRL friends I’d say let’s go be angry sad and lost introverts together and say nothing to each other but you wouldn’t have to be alone. Like sit in the dark and say nothing for hours. Or say shit I don’t know. FUCK.
  17. I'm on the wait list with all water guides. that's all I have.
  18. we've both spent considerable time in Tuscany years ago and we will be there for a week (well on the edge of Tuscany and Umbria) so we have that covered. The question is where next, we are considering Cinque Terra vs. Amalfi Coast and looking for input there.
  19. from cortona for a week we will. there's only so much you can do in one village for 7 days.
  20. end of september/early october. we plan to have a car. I didn't want to derail the question (no pun intended) with a car vs. train. I strongly prefer a car, we drove from Venice to Florence and Tuscany countryside 20 years ago it was idyllic. I've already done most of Tuscany/Venice. I haven't done Rome but my wife has. So we are trying to get me some Rome time and her some Tuscany time, and then pick one spot we haven't been together. btw I'm a sailor - cleared for up to 50 foot yachts / self-captain in the Caribbean and will hope to have my ICC at some point and we will do sicily, southern Italy, Sardina, etc. by sailboat, so I'm specifically saving that for later.
  21. Question - Amalfi Coast or Cinque Terre? So we bid on and won a week in cortona - a bit long there - I’ve been 20 years ago - but we will make do and probably day trip around some. Anyway, we are going to stretch that 7 days to 15-16. We will land in Rome, spend the night then train or drive to cortona. Haven’t decided yet car would be great for wandering day trips. From there it’s either amalfi or cinque terra. Then finish with 2 nights in Rome and come home. so pros / cons - plusses / minuses to cinque terra and amalfi coast? in the meantime I’ll read the thread…
  22. troph

    High

    still have open spots... DM me. it's designer shit. help me, help you.
  23. I haven’t been paying attention just now realized it was a Texas v aggy coaching duel. Hahahaha.
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