I need a ruling here guys...
Yesterday evening was the culmination of kind of a stressful few days, so I asked my wife if she wanted to go to a restaurant for dinner (with our kids). We picked a Mexican place close to our house and, as luck would have it, her sister was going to be there at the same time with her family and a couple of friends. Everyone was happy that we were going to get together. Great.
Well, it was raining yesterday and the temps dropped about 20 degrees as the front passed. I was wearing shorts and flip flops because it had been 86 degrees earlier in the day. It was 63, windy and raining when we left the restaurant. My wife was driving; I'm in the passenger seat (I know, I know, but long story short it was easier to leave the kids her her car instead of transferring them to my truck. Plus, she knows I hate her driving and I normally drive everywhere, even in her car, but I didn't want to be antagonistic and insist that I drive.) After we leave the restaurant we pull up to a light and my SIL's car is right next to us. My wife rolls down my window to "say hi" to them. As far as I know, they never saw us (their windows were all up). When she started rolling my window down I said, "WTF? What are you doing? Why are you rolling the window down?!" She got all pissed off at me. Huh??? It was 63 degrees. And windy. And raining. And I was wearing shorts and flip flops. I guess next time it's pouring rain or cold or snowing or lightning I'll put her outside to exposure her to it because that's cool. Then she claimed I was gaslighting her because I got mad at her about that. Then I told her she didn't know the definition of gaslighting, which is a much overused word, case in point. Yadda, yadda, yadda now I'm sleeping on the couch.