Asking for a friend.
He has a female primary care doc and a female broken brain doc.
Getting older + broken brain pills can cause issues…. With let’s say… to a rigid schedule.
Wellbutrin helped a lot according to him.
But completing the task at full attention can still be an issue unless his wife is super into it and committed.
Due to the length of his marriage, he’s lucky if a shooting star passes by and he even gets half assed ‘ok fine’ fun. But due to said issue, she’s even less likely bc now the not finishing himself is causing her self esteem issues. (He assures me that she is taken care of first so it’s not like she’s being left high and dry, but he can’t doesn’t get finale himself.)
Lots of backstory.
But does said friend just straight up ask for wonky dong pills from his younger women providers? I mean, he has told them multiple times the issues and they’ve changed to different meds that have helped to a degree, but they’ve never once suggested them. Is it because they’re female? He takes blood pressure meds so maybe it’s that? They’re younger so it’s weird already.
This friend is kind of out of ‘let’s try a different kind of antidepressant/ anxiety pill’ and other point of ‘let’s fix the acute issue’ phase. I mean, how many years left does he even have where the wife will even acquiesce to half hearted ‘sure fine’ sex before the well just dries up completely?
Please tell me I didn’t just say all this into a Wendy’s drive through……