Great comments. I will try to answer some questions and elaborate.
I have not put any feelers out to other businesses in the area, but I am encouraged by the comments.
After talking to a commercial developer yesterday, I am a quite a bit less optimistic about the value of the office/land. Realistically, I could sell as is for 1M max and lease for for 10K/m max. But depending on desperation factors maybe half that.
Our concrete business does commercial and residential work. Our largest job to date was $5 million and we just finished on that was 1.6. So there have been some good times for sure.
Because of the long term nature and the stress of big jobs, I have been concentrating on warehouse finish outs etc., but the money not great.
I want to stay married, wife wants out. I have been checked out for a couple of years. We are going to counseling, but I think her problems with me run prettty deep.
We have two high school boys as well and we are not sure what their plans are.
So there is a lot going on all at once and it is pretty stressful, especially because these issues were caused by poor planning and problem avoidance.