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With regard to incels there is a graduate student at Texas named William Costello who has found that compared to the general populations incels have much higher rates of depression, autism and suicide ideation. The extreme black and white beliefs (women only like male models) is in line with guys that are on the spectrum. This is a mental health issue. One of the popular incel/blackpill influencers is a guy named Clavicular who is on the spectrum and advocates extreme measures to improve his appearance like steroids, bonesmashing, and plastic surgeries like limb lengthening and jaw surgeries. William Costello has appeared on several podcasts and it's worth watching because there is a great deal of misinformation about incels.

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14 hours ago, Samson's Wig said:

I am staunchly nonreligious, but I've advised many a single friend over the years who was stuck in a rut, and a couple who fall into the sadsack variety we're discussing in this thread, to just go to church.  Any church.

Absolutely suggest this.

Although maybe not the “any” part tbh. 

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On 12/22/2025 at 2:26 PM, SimonBolivar said:

They'll settle and dudes can do something to not be total losers.

Hell, I have a single friend at 35 that is an incel and his apartment is decorated like a 13-year-old's shrine to OU football. What value is there for a woman there?

I had a single buddy. We worked at the same bank.  He made a great salary, and was a decent looking guy.  He had a nice car, and owned a nice condo. He was into hunting and fishing. His condo looked like a fucked-up hunting lodge.  He was 1/2 Korean, so his mom did the no shoes in the house thing.  So, when you walked through his front door, there was a rack with about a dozen pairs of various shoes on it...in the living room.   Mounted dead animals on the walls, the fridge was covered in stickers like it belonged in some hot-rodder's garage.  The 2nd bedroom was filled with garbage cans filled with empty 12 gauge shells to be reloaded on the adjacent reloading bench.

Basically, it looked like a house a serial killer would live in.  

The first time I visited, I straight-up told him that his place fucking sucked, and would creep out any woman that set foot in the place.   i've lost touch with him, but during the time we worked together, he never dated.  He fucked whores off TER.  He did that weekly, or more often.  He was happy with that, and thought that I was the asshole for  having a wife that cost me a lot of money.

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On 12/23/2025 at 4:19 AM, Samson's Wig said:

I am staunchly nonreligious, but I've advised many a single friend over the years who was stuck in a rut, and a couple who fall into the sadsack variety we're discussing in this thread, to just go to church.  Any church.   Nobody so desperately wants to help other people hook up as religious people. I think it's the subconscious drive to perpetuate the organization, or perhaps a desire to live vicariously through someone else having fun, but whatever it is, you'll have several matchmakers going to work within a couple of weeks.  For someone with no comfort around women and who needs to date just anyone to get the monkey off their back, there is no easier way.  Plus, church girls are easy.  Once some basic skills are developed, they can then step up to trying to find more appealing women elsewhere.  Also, you don't have to pay $9,000 to touch a single boob.  A hearty after-service meal, a walk in the park, maybe a couple of comments that demonstrate a soul searching for meaning, and they'll be doing a whole lot more than that.

"If you want to find someone desperate and horny enough to fuck your awkward ass no questions asked, go to church!" may the the best--and most fitting--selling point left for American Christianity.

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On 12/23/2025 at 7:19 AM, Samson's Wig said:

I am staunchly nonreligious, but I've advised many a single friend over the years who was stuck in a rut, and a couple who fall into the sadsack variety we're discussing in this thread, to just go to church.  Any church.   Nobody so desperately wants to help other people hook up as religious people. I think it's the subconscious drive to perpetuate the organization, or perhaps a desire to live vicariously through someone else having fun, but whatever it is, you'll have several matchmakers going to work within a couple of weeks.  For someone with no comfort around women and who needs to date just anyone to get the monkey off their back, there is no easier way.  Plus, church girls are easy.  Once some basic skills are developed, they can then step up to trying to find more appealing women elsewhere.  Also, you don't have to pay $9,000 to touch a single boob.  A hearty after-service meal, a walk in the park, maybe a couple of comments that demonstrate a soul searching for meaning, and they'll be doing a whole lot more than that.

I mostly agree with this but for the incels and weirdos who go to Slutcon I think it still won’t work and they’ll need training wheels. Church is for sure a place where a slightly inexperienced, or dorky awkward guy can meet women with a support network of people cheering for them. Works well for our generation. I don’t think we appreciate how nuked this generation of weirdos are. They are not going to be able to:

- Politely feign interest in the sermon or Bible study she wants to talk or ask about

- Spend a few minutes jawboning with the dads there about a game or camping or how business is going

- Slap on a pair of khakis and a button-down and get a haircut that looks like the married men there (signaling that they are in the mix for that future). 

- Get acquainted with a church girl, accept that this particular church girl isn’t interested, and then show up next Sunday and be polite and genuinely friendly, and demonstrate that maybe you’re OK for some other church girl even if the first didn’t work out.

- Making friends with a church girl THEY are not interested in or even—gasp— with another man there so they can practice doing things like “talking to people” or “compromising on an activity” or “grabbing a burger just to hang out. 

These guys are FRIED man. They can’t interact with women without either explicitly trying to fuck them, getting angry that they don’t want to fuck, or treating them like non-entities because they aren’t fuckable. They don’t make friends, they just look for other dudes who validate their women hate. They don’t have normal or non-off putting interests and can’t pretend they do. 
 

A lot of these skills they can’t or don’t want to learn and they didn’t learn them in youth group or wherever. My folks are in leadership in a church and have talked to me about 1-2 burnouts— 18-20 with no job or prospects— who actually where part of the church with their families. They failed to develop and they’ve had to be talked to (and their parents) about how church is for everyone, and that means these dudes can’t creep on girls and act wounded when girls don’t reciprocate. 

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7 minutes ago, 956 Worldwide said:

I mostly agree with this but for the incels and weirdos who go to Slutcon I think it still won’t work and they’ll need training wheels. Church is for sure a place where a slightly inexperienced, or dorky awkward guy can meet women with a support network of people cheering for them. Works well for our generation. I don’t think we appreciate how nuked this generation of weirdos are. They are not going to be able to:

- Politely feign interest in the sermon or Bible study she wants to talk or ask about

- Spend a few minutes jawboning with the dads there about a game or camping or how business is going

- Slap on a pair of khakis and a button-down and get a haircut that looks like the married men there (signaling that they are in the mix for that future). 

- Get acquainted with a church girl, accept that this particular church girl isn’t interested, and then show up next Sunday and be polite and genuinely friendly, and demonstrate that maybe you’re OK for some other church girl even if the first didn’t work out.

- Making friends with a church girl THEY are not interested in or even—gasp— with another man there so they can practice doing things like “talking to people” or “compromising on an activity” or “grabbing a burger just to hang out. 

These guys are FRIED man. They can’t interact with women without either explicitly trying to fuck them, getting angry that they don’t want to fuck, or treating them like non-entities because they aren’t fuckable. They don’t make friends, they just look for other dudes who validate their women hate. They don’t have normal or non-off putting interests and can’t pretend they do. 
 

A lot of these skills they can’t or don’t want to learn and they didn’t learn them in youth group or wherever. My folks are in leadership in a church and have talked to me about 1-2 burnouts— 18-20 with no job or prospects— who actually where part of the church with their families. They failed to develop and they’ve had to be talked to (and their parents) about how church is for everyone, and that means these dudes can’t creep on girls and act wounded when girls don’t reciprocate. 

At what point would it be appropriate for them to voice their love of step-sibling porn into the conversation at church? Asking for a friend.

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Anyway, better advice than Slutcon is: try to become an acquaintance or friend of a woman you are not sexually attracted to. Go in with the intention of getting to know a woman you don’t think you’d ever want to fuck, and don’t act like you want to fuck her. Don’t even think about it. 
 

- Maybe you’ll make a friend. Awesome! She will also likely help you meet more women. Use your new social skills there. 

- Maybe she won’t want to get to know you. Maybe she won’t like being around you. Maybe your problem is just “people.” Time to reassess. Tweak your game. Try again champ! 

- Maybe this is a meet cute and over time you will fall for each other. This won’t happen but it could. But don’t try to make it happen.  If you do that you’re doing it wrong! Back to step one— DO NOT TRY TO SLEEP WITH HER. 
 

- Maybe she will mistake friendly interest for romantic interest and you will need to grapple with that. Look at you- putting someone in the “friend zone.” Are you a bad or cruel person? Is it your fault that she couldn’t accept what you felt and were offering?  No? Many life lessons to ponder here. 

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12 minutes ago, Schulz2.0 said:

At what point would it be appropriate for them to voice their love of step-sibling porn into the conversation at church? Asking for a friend.

That’s an announcement you make at the altar call. 

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Anyway, better advice than Slutcon is: try to become an acquaintance or friend of a woman you are not sexually attracted to. Go in with the intention of getting to know a woman you don’t think you’d ever want to fuck, and don’t act like you want to fuck her. Don’t even think about it. 
 
- Maybe you’ll make a friend. Awesome! She will also likely help you meet more women. Use your new social skills there. 
- Maybe she won’t want to get to know you. Maybe she won’t like being around you. Maybe your problem is just “people.” Time to reassess. Tweak your game. Try again champ! 

- Maybe this is a meet cute and over time you will fall for each other. This won’t happen but it could. But don’t try to make it happen.  If you do that you’re doing it wrong! Back to step one— DO NOT TRY TO SLEEP WITH HER. 
 
- Maybe she will mistake friendly interest for romantic interest and you will need to grapple with that. Look at you- putting someone in the “friend zone.” Are you a bad or cruel person? Is it your fault that she couldn’t accept what you felt and were offering?  No? Many life lessons to ponder here. 

My son put it more succinctly: “just treat women like human beings, and it all falls into place.”
Seriously, all the dominoes fall once you do that. Have give-and-take conversations with women, treat them with respect, actually get to know them…and then it become super-easy to engage with and attract women you’re interested in because guess what? You’ve already run the drill.
The boy has several female friends. They do things together, make each other laugh, trust and help each other. That’s the foundation for any healthy relationship, including an intimate one. I mean, does it frustrate me that he just thinks of that super-cute and smart Sarah from Manchester as just a friend? Sure. But the flip side of that is that she’s one of his biggest advocates, looks out for him, speaks well of him to other women, etc.
The bigger umbrella problem here is what is pointed out above: these dudes have no social skills AT ALL. They can’t even engage in decent relationship with other guys.
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How much correlation with the kids being discussed here and having their brains saturated in devices and social media and rampant easily available porn (just naming a few factors for consideration) during formative development years. Yeah, not really surprising when you put that all up in the psychological development shaker you are going to have a good number of maladapted boys come out the other side. Limited social skills, unhealthy relationship expectations of women, creeper behavior. Certainly there are lots of upbringing scenarios that can lead to the maladapted behaviors being discussed, but we sure flooded the pool with some of the factors mentioned above for the birth cohorts being discussed here. 

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1 minute ago, Anastasis said:

How much correlation with the kids being discussed here and having their brains saturated in devices and social media and rampant easily available porn (just naming a few factors for consideration) during formative development years. Yeah, not really surprising when you put that all up in the psychological development shaker you are going to have a good number of maladapted boys come out the other side. Limited social skills, unhealthy relationship expectations of women, creeper behavior. Certainly there are lots of upbringing scenarios that can lead to the maladapted behaviors being discussed, but we sure flooded the pool for some of the above for the birth cohorts being discussed. 

They will suppress the research from even happening

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1 hour ago, 956 Worldwide said:

I mostly agree with this but for the incels and weirdos who go to Slutcon I think it still won’t work and they’ll need training wheels. Church is for sure a place where a slightly inexperienced, or dorky awkward guy can meet women with a support network of people cheering for them. Works well for our generation. I don’t think we appreciate how nuked this generation of weirdos are. They are not going to be able to:

- Politely feign interest in the sermon or Bible study she wants to talk or ask about

- Spend a few minutes jawboning with the dads there about a game or camping or how business is going

- Slap on a pair of khakis and a button-down and get a haircut that looks like the married men there (signaling that they are in the mix for that future). 

- Get acquainted with a church girl, accept that this particular church girl isn’t interested, and then show up next Sunday and be polite and genuinely friendly, and demonstrate that maybe you’re OK for some other church girl even if the first didn’t work out.

- Making friends with a church girl THEY are not interested in or even—gasp— with another man there so they can practice doing things like “talking to people” or “compromising on an activity” or “grabbing a burger just to hang out. 

These guys are FRIED man. They can’t interact with women without either explicitly trying to fuck them, getting angry that they don’t want to fuck, or treating them like non-entities because they aren’t fuckable. They don’t make friends, they just look for other dudes who validate their women hate. They don’t have normal or non-off putting interests and can’t pretend they do. 
 

A lot of these skills they can’t or don’t want to learn and they didn’t learn them in youth group or wherever. My folks are in leadership in a church and have talked to me about 1-2 burnouts— 18-20 with no job or prospects— who actually where part of the church with their families. They failed to develop and they’ve had to be talked to (and their parents) about how church is for everyone, and that means these dudes can’t creep on girls and act wounded when girls don’t reciprocate. 

IMO the problem is that there is no place for kids to just be kids, outside of maybe church. And even then, church isn't normal social interaction. 

Has social media made that problem worse? Absolutely. But at the root, you take away cell phones and porn, what difference do you expect to see? It's loitering to hang out somewhere. Kids walking to the park get CPS called after their parents. You can't really exist anywhere without a meter running and running up a bill. 

There's no jobs for them to get and build those skills either - it's just a foundational undermining of the social fabric. 

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