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1 minute ago, South Austin said:

Last night and this morning. 

C’mon guys. I was the last person I thought would keep this thread going.

Does it count if it's in the family?

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1 minute ago, TrashMaster G said:

Does it count if it's in the family?

No, it has to be for real getting laid. Otherwise I would’ve dominated the 2019 thread.

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8 minutes ago, South Austin said:

Last night and this morning. 

C’mon guys. I was the last person I thought would keep this thread going.

It isn’t the weekend yet.

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Well most of us don’t post here every single time but my man SA certainly deserves to, so go for it dude.  For my wife and I it’s been at least once a week since April which is a huge change from ‘like bunnies when away from the kids but rare at home’ we’d been stuck in since our second was born.  
 

We were out of town in a rental house on vacation this week, with our kids and another couple that has a daughter our son’s age who we take an annual beach trip with...we declined the beach this year due to covid and just let the kids go wild in the houses pool each day.  Tuesday night we were wrapping up the evening, told my wife to meet me in the bed with no pants on, and straight up went at it until we both got off and were exhausted.  After a few years of long dry spells it’s been fabulous to be at a point where I can tell her i want you right now and won’t take no’ and to have her eagerly comply.  
 

She has been rundown since we got back and went to bed super early last night, where Friday’s are our usual ‘get high and get laid’ lockdown date nights, so wish me luck tonight...but if it doesn’t happen I won’t be bitter because Tuesday was so hot and reconnecting with awesome regular sex has been so good I’ve killed off the resentment.  Our marriage turned a huge corner this year and I’m nothing but grateful.  
 

There...is that better?

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Oh, and went at it with the ladyfriend last night till my dick got sore. I knew it was going to be a good night when she had a couple tequilas and said, “I just want to fuck right now.”

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On 6/27/2020 at 10:35 AM, South Austin said:

My man!

Not gonna happen for us this weekend, she’s still run down and I know when not to press.  Been taking on extra since Thursday so she can rest...but I did get a concession for my efforts: she was trying on shirts, bottomless and one in particular got my full attention, I told her when she’s feeling better we are going to recreate that moment, after the kids are in bed and with our door locked.  
 

Just like I said in the divorce thread...what a sea change in a short period of time.  Covid can kiss my ass but I’m incredibly grateful it turned out our foundation was strong and I had to lead the way with personal change to get it back, but saw almost immediate improvement for our efforts.  There’s something about regular intimacy with your partner that seems to make everything better.  

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We need a combination of this thread, combined with "Getting Old Sucks" and title it "I Don't Fuck No More".

FML, getting old does indeed suck.

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On ‎6‎/‎28‎/‎2020 at 1:56 PM, Homercles said:

Just like I said in the divorce thread...what a sea change in a short period of time.  Covid can kiss my ass but I’m incredibly grateful it turned out our foundation was strong and I had to lead the way with personal change to get it back, but saw almost immediate improvement for our efforts.  There’s something about regular intimacy with your partner that seems to make everything better.  

This is true, and I'm happy you and your wife are in a better place.  While I don't mean to throw a turd in your punch bowl, let me also offer my cautionary tale.

My ex and I also had a sexual resurgence a few years ago.  Our sex life and marriage in general was in a lull.  Not bad, but complacent, and the physical connection had been sidelined, as is often the case with two young kids.  Sometime around Spring of 2016 we started communicating more and making the effort to meet in the middle, and . . . well . . . we started fucking like rabbits again.  It wasn't the blissful honeymoon era again, but we found a better place emotionally and physically, and continued with not only some pretty fantastic and regular sex, but carving out more time for ourselves with frequent date nights and couples weekends. 

Turns out, it was right around that time, when our relationship had been on a significant upswing, that my ex-wife began her affair with another married man, which continued until May 2019 when I uncovered it.  For most of that first year of her affair, our sex life was great and our marriage seemed to be healthier.

I don't mean to suggest your wife is having or will have an affair.  In fact, I'd like to think that my case is an outlier, and there were other troubling aspects of my ex's overall behavior and mental health.  What I'm saying is this:  Pay attention to your marriage.  Every.  Day.

Now, back to getting laid.  I'll report back tonight . . . .

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That thought hasn’t been lost on me.  Trust me in that I’m paying attention, even if I have no reason to be concerned.  
 

Besides being cognizant of that, paying attention  to ensure I don’t have blinders on...not sure what else I can do besides focus on myself and our marriage.  
 

Remind me how you found out?

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36 minutes ago, Homercles said:

Remind me how you found out?

Found a receipt showing she had stayed at a hotel off South Congress during a time when she told me she was on a work trip in Phoenix.  It was in her unsecure gmail account that was accessible on an iPad our kids used.  In the months leading up to then, I had found other things that suggested something was amiss, but either bought her explanations or never confronted her with them.  It showed me the lengths the human brain will go to convince yourself that your wife isn't cheating on you, until it can't anymore. 

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20 hours ago, South Austin said:

Found a receipt showing she had stayed at a hotel off South Congress during a time when she told me she was on a work trip in Phoenix.  It was in her unsecure gmail account that was accessible on an iPad our kids used.  In the months leading up to then, I had found other things that suggested something was amiss, but either bought her explanations or never confronted her with them.  It showed me the lengths the human brain will go to convince yourself that your wife isn't cheating on you, until it can't anymore. 

That kind of crap sucks so damned bad.  I had a couple serious girlfriends/fiances pull that back in the 70's.

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